Why are our lives full of miseries?

 Life is tough. Irrespective of the quality of our lives, we all have problems. Some of us struggle with finances, while some are still struggling with relationships. Some of us are fortunate enough to experience early success in life yet struggle to find that right group of friends to enjoy those happy moments whereas someone is still struggling to get a job after graduating while his friends are supporting him to not lose hope.

Ever after earning a lot of fame and money, people are not able to find that peace in their life while some people's lives are full of hardships and sufferings yet they try to find peace in what they have.

To be very honest, no matter how far you go problems are everywhere. It's just, the problems that seemed really challenging at one point of time don't really matter at some another point in your life. 

Our ability to deal with the challenges life throws at us is what makes a difference. I have this one simple rule, whenever I'm in trouble or face a problem, I try to calm myself and spend some time alone because I know at that state of mind I might act stupidly and do something that may worsens the situation or create new problems.

Having a positive approach and calm mind is really important and I believe if you have this state of mind, half of your life challenges are already conquered.

Life is a vicious cycle of facing new challenges and conquering them, but it can also be a beautiful paradise of learning and growing at the same time, what matters the most is your perception towards it. Start taking challenges as an opportunity to grow, the more you go through the more you grow as a person.  And I believe those who have conquered major challenges at an early stage in their lives are the ones who are actually doing really great in their lives.

Life is a gift, accept it. Be grateful to whatever you have. 

Have a great day!